I was recently sent the following fascinating family story by Karen Hayes. Thanks to Karen and her aunt for her kind permission to share the story with you. She originally contacted me to ask for transcripts from the Kalgoorlie Hospital records for her Great Grandmother and her two children. These are the following transcripts which I sent to her:
BUX Kate Cooper – Address: 317 Hay Street, Kalgoorlie – Tel Kalgoorlie 222 – Husband at the same address – 34yrs – married – Cause: Cut own throat – Admitted 8 Jul 1912 at 10:30am – Discharged 19 Jul 1912 at 5pm – Condition relived Transferred to Claremont Asylum.
BUX Marion – Address: 317 Hay St, Kalgoorlie – Tel C/- Water Supply – Father at the same address – 9yrs – Cause: Influenza – Admitted: 5 Nov 1912 at 12:30pm – Discharged: 6 Nov 1912 at 2pm – Condition cured – 1 day.
BUX AMEER – Father Dardoola BUX – Address: 273 Hay St, Kalgoorlie – 11yrs – Cause: Diphtheria – Admitted: 14 Mar 1914 at 1:15pm – 28 Mar 1914 at 2pm – Condition relived – 14 days.
Kate Cooper, Karen’s Great Grandmother, was an English girl, daughter of William Cooper and Emily nee Parker who came out on one of the Bride Ships to Fremantle. She went to Coolgardie where she met and “married” Dardoola Bux who was from India (more likely it was spelt Buksh & then anglicized) – because it was the marriage of an Indian man and an English lady, their marriage was only recognized by the Muslims. Kate kept her surname as a middle name.
They initially lived in the outskirts of town with other “Afghans”. Sadly Kate suffered from post-natal depression (hence the suicide attempt) and unfortunately passed away in Claremont Asylum in 1912 leaving Kate’s paternal grandmother (she was three when her mother Kate passed away) and her siblings to be raised alone with their father Dardoola.
This is her story:
FREMANTLE – Kate Cooper sailed from England to Fremantle in 1894 as one of the girls who came to Australia on what were coined “The Bride Ships”. These women, chosen for their good reputation, were desperately needed to balance the acute disparity of the sexes in Western Australia.
On the 6th of October 1894 they docked at Fremantle Western Australia. Previous experiences reported that “The ships which brought these women during the 1890s were met at the wharf by crowds of men anxious to employ, or to propose marriage”. The ‘Brides’ had been warned by Ellen Joyce to uphold their excellent reputations and conduct themselves irreproachably.
Little of Kate is known during her time in Fremantle and her connection with the father of her first child. On the 28th of November 1896, Kate married Tom Uriah Grandell at the Anglican church in Fremantle, identifying his parents William Grandell, a farmer, and Ellen Austin. We also know that in 1896 Kate gave birth to a son, Thomas Uriah Grandell Cooper. Tragically, this little boy only lived eight weeks.